Unmistakable Signs Your Cat Really Loves You

Even though dogs are typically referred to as "man's best friend," plenty of people around the world consider their cat to be their best friend. Here are a few ways your feline shows their love.

Headbutting and Rubbing

One of the clearest ways your cat says "I love you" is by bumping their head against you and then rubbing their cheek or chin on you. Headbutts are a common way for a kitty to say hello and ask for attention. Rubbing against you is more than just a request for chin scratches. Cats have glands in their chins and cheeks which release comforting pheromones, so when your cat starts rubbing their face on you, they're marking you as a "safe person."

Purrs and Slow Blinks

If your cat's little motor starts running as you pet them, or even just hang out near them, be flattered! Purring is one of the primary ways your cat tells you that they're happy. Researchers are still studying how cats communicate through narrowed eyes and slow, gentle blinks, but a slow blink indicates a relaxed cat who feels safe and trusts you. Many cat owners interpret this gesture as an "I love you" from their furry friend, especially if it's accompanied by a purr.

Grooming You

Sure, it might feel a little odd to have a cat's scratchy tongue trying to groom your hair- especially when you've just washed it. However, attempting to groom you is a clear sign of affection and love from your cat. Mother cats lick and groom their kittens from the moment they're born, while the kittens may also try to groom their siblings. For cats, grooming isn't just about keeping their fur clean and tidy. It's also a way to give and receive comfort and create bonds between cats. When your cat grooms you, they may be trying to return the affection you give them through scratches and pets. They may even be trying to tell you that they consider you part of their family.